{"id":4478,"date":"2026-01-28T16:14:33","date_gmt":"2026-01-28T16:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/?p=4478"},"modified":"2026-03-04T12:51:32","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T12:51:32","slug":"6-tips-for-starting-a-conversation-about-your-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/2026\/01\/28\/6-tips-for-starting-a-conversation-about-your-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"6 tips for starting a conversation about your mental health"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">Talking about mental health isn\u2019t always easy \u2013 especially when you\u2019re not sure how to begin. But if you\u2019re struggling, opening up can make a real difference.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif\" data-olk-copy-source=\"MessageBody\">Here are six practical tips to help you get the conversation started from Rachael Rice, Student Adviser (Mental Health and Autism) at Teesside University.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4503\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-1-5-e1769696817245.jpeg\" alt=\"Holding hands\" width=\"840\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-1-5-e1769696817245.jpeg 840w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-1-5-e1769696817245-300x196.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-1-5-e1769696817245-768x501.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>1. Choose someone you trust<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">Opening up can feel easier when you\u2019re speaking to someone who makes you feel comfortable \u2013 a family member, friend, flatmate, GP, or someone from the student support service.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">You might even want to speak to all of the above because different people may be able to offer different kinds of support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4504 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/umm-e-hani-ali-8u9ojDDfl1Y-unsplash-e1769696885446-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"Note paper and laptop on a desk\" width=\"840\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/umm-e-hani-ali-8u9ojDDfl1Y-unsplash-e1769696885446-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/umm-e-hani-ali-8u9ojDDfl1Y-unsplash-e1769696885446-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/umm-e-hani-ali-8u9ojDDfl1Y-unsplash-e1769696885446-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/umm-e-hani-ali-8u9ojDDfl1Y-unsplash-e1769696885446.jpg 1198w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>2. Think about what you want to say<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">Writing down some of the things you want to talk about on your phone or a piece of paper can make it easier to collect your thoughts and get started.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">If you\u2019re still finding it challenging, try filling in the gaps in these sentences:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">\u201cRecently, I\u2019ve been feeling ______.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">\u201cCan I talk to you about ______?\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">\u201c______ has been on my mind.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4506\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-2-8-1-e1769697045117.jpeg\" alt=\"Cup of tea\" width=\"840\" height=\"551\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-2-8-1-e1769697045117.jpeg 840w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-2-8-1-e1769697045117-300x197.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-2-8-1-e1769697045117-768x504.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>3. Pick the right time and place<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">Environment matters when you\u2019re talking about your mental health. Choose the place you\u2019ll feel most comfortable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">That may be a scheduled meeting on campus with a student wellbeing adviser, a relaxed moment at home with a family member, a confidential phone call with a qualified counsellor, or a group discussion with your friends in a caf\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4511\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-4-1-e1769698400159.jpeg\" alt=\"Emojis showing a range of emotions\" width=\"840\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-4-1-e1769698400159.jpeg 840w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-4-1-e1769698400159-300x206.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-4-1-e1769698400159-768x527.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>4. Be open and honest<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">Young Minds says that being clear about how you\u2019re feeling can help others understand what you\u2019re going through and how they can support you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">That doesn\u2019t mean you have to have all the answers. Being honest about not knowing how you\u2019re feeling or how to communicate it is just as important.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">You don\u2019t have to share everything at once either \u2013 start with what feels comfortable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4507\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-3-1-e1769697600670.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"840\" height=\"583\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-3-1-e1769697600670.jpeg 840w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-3-1-e1769697600670-300x208.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-3-1-e1769697600670-768x533.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>5. Talk about support<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">There are lots of different types of support. You may just need someone to listen to you, or you might want them to take a more proactive role in helping you find the right help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">It\u2019s okay to tell someone directly what kind of support or outcomes you\u2019re looking for from the conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4494 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/nik-KuMwvCJTKCw-unsplash-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Two shapes greeting each other\" width=\"840\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/nik-KuMwvCJTKCw-unsplash-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/nik-KuMwvCJTKCw-unsplash-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/nik-KuMwvCJTKCw-unsplash-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/nik-KuMwvCJTKCw-unsplash.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>6. Keep the conversation going<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">Talking about mental health is rarely a one-off. It\u2019s the start of an ongoing conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">The NHS suggests talking about mental health can get easier and more comfortable the more you do it too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\">Staying connected and checking in is hugely important and can make a real difference to your mental health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>Starting a conversation about mental health can feel daunting, but it\u2019s one of the most meaningful things you can do. Talking to someone else can remind you that you\u2019re not alone.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>If you\u2019re a student at Teesside University and need support, get in touch with the <a href=\"mailto:studentlife@tees.ac.uk\">Student Life team<\/a> to speak to someone and make an appointment. You can also get confidential support 24\/7 through the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tees.ac.uk\/sections\/stud\/mental_wellbeing.cfm\">Student Assistance Programme<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>For <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tees.ac.uk\/sections\/stud\/emergency.cfm\">urgent help<\/a>, call the emergency services on 999.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18px\"><strong>You may be interested in this <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/2026\/01\/28\/6-tips-for-starting-a-conversation-about-your-mental-health\/\">blog<\/a> about how to support someone else who opens up about their mental health.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Talking about mental health isn\u2019t always easy \u2013 especially when you\u2019re not sure how to begin. But if you\u2019re struggling, opening up can make a real difference. Here are six practical tips to help you get the conversation started from Rachael Rice, Student Adviser (Mental Health and Autism) at Teesside University. 1. Choose someone you &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/2026\/01\/28\/6-tips-for-starting-a-conversation-about-your-mental-health\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;6 tips for starting a conversation about your mental health&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25094,"featured_media":4508,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[102,258,257,12],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/files\/2026\/01\/Untitled-1-6.jpeg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4478"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25094"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4478"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4478\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4564,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4478\/revisions\/4564"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4508"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4478"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4478"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.tees.ac.uk\/talkingteesside\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4478"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}